For those shy guys, trying to get lucky, or even just to meet a nice girl is a physical and emotional challenge. Nevertheless, one particularly shy guy, managed to become an amazing pickup artist. He even posted a blog on how he did this on Jewish Dating Service.
There are a number of very small, basic and easy steps shy guys can take in order to beat the problem.
Even before the first step begins, it is essential to find a hang out spot where there are lots and lots of women. This is important so that, not only will there be a constant supply of women, but later on, there will be options to actually choose amongst them.
The fist step might take place somewhere like a mall. This is where women like to hang out. At such a location, the shy guy needs to walk through the mall and smile at every woman that walks by. This includes looking her in the eye while you smile. In the worst case scenario, she will simply ignore you. In the best case, which often happens, she will even smile back.
This exercise teaches shy guys how to get more comfortable connecting with the opposite sex. Once this exercise is easy then you are ready to jump up to the next step.
Step number two is not so different from the first one. This time, when a women come within range, the shy guy must say hi to her. The purpose of this step is to help the guy get comfortable speaking with female strangers.
Saying hi is a great way to learn to be comfortable with women. In most cases the women will probably even say hi back. Once the shy guy has become comfortable with saying hi to females strangers, he is ready to face the next step.
The third step in this exercise is to ask directions from female strangers. It is important to keep this stage simple, so as not to confuse the matter. One way of approaching this task is to ask a woman where a certain store is located. These can be simple questions such as where is Mcdonalds? Do you know what store sells street-wear? etc
This teaches the shy guy how to have a conversation, no matter how small, with a woman. These are just the easy steps, the real challenges begin afterwards when you then have to speak with women.
